Patronising Things Narcissists Say — And What They Really Mean Narcissists often use patronising phrases to shut down conversations while appearing calm, reasonable, or superior. These comments aren’t harmless. They are designed to dismiss your feelings and reassert control. “You need to calm down.” This is rarely about your tone. It’s a way to invalidate your emotions and frame you as irrational, even when you’re speaking calmly. “It wasn’t that bad.” This minimises your experience. By downplay
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Patronising Things Narcissists Say — And What They Really Mean Narcissists often use patronising phrases to shut down conversations while appearing calm, reasonable, or superior. These comments aren’t harmless. They are designed to dismiss your feelings and reassert control. “You need to calm down.” This is rarely about your tone. It’s a way to invalidate your emotions and frame you as irrational, even when you’re speaking calmly. “It wasn’t that bad.” This minimises your experience. By downplay
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Lots of people say this to me. Sometimes it feels patronising, other times I know they’re genuinely looking out for my general wellbeing, and future. I’m still working on this. And when I say I will look after him forever, I mean that I will be the first emergency call, I’ll be there for dinner on his hard days, my home will become the home he comes back to for Christmas, Birthdays, holidays. I’ll always have a room for him, a bedroom ready for big brother Ewen; hopefully Uncle Ewen one day. The
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