Dorian Carlisle on Instagram: "5 ways to start a conversation after an argument 1. “I’ve had time to think about what happened and I see where I could’ve handled it better.” Starting with accountability softens the tension instantly. It shows you’re not here to point fingers but to take ownership. It invites them to lower their guard and meet you halfway instead of feeling attacked. 2. “I care about us more than the argument, can we talk about it?” This one reminds your partner that the relation